You have a meeting and need to wake up earlier than you normally do?
I have needed to wake up early in the morning when I just don’t want to get out of bed. And I find it hard to now wake up when it is still dark outside. The transition from summer to winter with the daylight savings is particularly challenging.
Here are some of the ways that I use to wake up early.
- Make the morning easier for yourself by setting out clothes that you will wear for the day the night before and pack your bag and lunch.
- Try a light alarm app. These apps help brighten your room in the morning to mimic the sunrise.
- Change up your alarm sounds. Once I get used to the alarm, I find that I am able to sleep right through it. By switching up the alarm sounds, your body doesn’t get habituated to the alarm and ignore it.
- Put your alarm far from your bed so that you have to physically get out of bed to turn off the alarm. This physical act of moving out of bed really helps me wake up.
- Have a morning routine. Be nice to yourself. And start slow.
Start off your day with brushing your teeth and relaxing a little bit. Drink some water. Slow down. I find that its the act of rushing in the morning deters me that from waking up.
Best of luck! I hope this helps you.
So I have been gone from the blog for awhile. But, I have been active on my Instagram posting thesis writing tips! Check it out! I saving these tips on my “Writing” highlights on @life_of_learning
For today’s post, I will be talking a bit about interviews. I have an interview coming up soon! I would be lying if I said that I wasn’t nervous.
I got really great tips from chatting with fellow interviewees and others who have gone through the process and I’d thought that I would share and add some of my own.
Two days before the interview:
Try to remove as much stress as you can for the day of the interview by preparing beforehand.
- Make sure you have all your documents ready
- Map out your route to the interview and maybe test out the route? (Know how long it will take and when you need to leave to make sure you can get to your interview on time)
- Be sure that you have a way of getting to the interview (Public transit? Driving?)
- Re-read the interview instructions and documents you need to ensure that you have everything.
- Make sure that you have comfortable clothes and shoes for the interview. Try them on.
The day before the interview:
- Don’t talk about the interview. It’s like fight club do not talk about fight club.
- Have everything you need (clothes, wallet, documentation) ready to go and put out so that it is a quick grab and go for the day of the interview
- Puppy or Pet therapy? Browse through instagram feeds of puppies!!
- Take a warm bath.
- Make yourself a warm cup of non caffeinated tea.
- Pamper yourself. (Facemasks? Your favorite meal?)
- Read a book?
- Do some bedtime relaxing yoga?
- Try to stay away from screen time an hour before your bedtime to ensure that you are not too anxious before sleeping.
- Journaling? Sometimes writing your fears down can help. Or talk to someone about it.
- Get a good night’s rest.
- Imagine all the things you can do when the interview is over!! All the stress from the interview will be gone!
- Imagine yourself succeeding and getting that offer letter!
- Be kind to yourself!
- You have made it this far! You got this!!
Day of the interview:
- Relax. You have made it this far! You got this!!! Have fun with the interview. It is a chance for you to know them as much as it is for them to know you!!
- If someone told you that it’s only a matter of WHEN you will get in, not IF. Not this year, then next year!! You are able and fully capable of doing this!! Remember this sentiment. It will make you feel a whole lot better! Remember that it’s not IF you get in, it is WHEN!!!!! Go get them!! Have fun with it! Enjoy the day!
These are some of the things that have made my life easier as a student or are on the top of my wish list!
- Ventev global wall charging hub : this charger is really cool. It is super compact and it is has all the universal charging heads. I don’t personally have one, I have a bulkier one. But if you travel a lot or want to save space in your luggage, this is the charger for you.
- Laptop stand: I used to use a pile of textbooks as my laptop stand but the angle was never right, and I liked having my laptop at eye level so that I don’t slouch as much. I invested in a really cheap laptop stand and it has changed my life. Also, if you spill coffee, chances are that it won’t it the laptop if your laptop is on the laptop stand.
- Contigo autospout waterbottle: This has encouraged me to stay hydrated. I have a huge bottle of water next to my desk when I am writing now, instead of my tiny coffee mugs filled with water.
- External LCD monitor for your laptop: THIS IS AMAZING. When you are reading papers and referencing them and writing and switching between a ton of different screens. Having an external monitor has been a game changer.
- Muji pens… these pens write really smoothly! But I have been told there are others.. But these are cheap and mostly widely available now?
- External Battery LOVE THIS as well. If you are at a long conference and are writing notes on your phone or are using your phone a lot… the battery drains quickly, but there are not enough outlets at a conference to charge your phone, an external battery has come in super handy. Or if you are commuting long distances into work and your phone runs out of battery in the middle of the day. These external batteries have really saved me a few times.
- Science gifts! For the friend who seems to have everything! Check out https://www.etsy.com/shop/PhdToSuccess. Teresa is a real scientist who crochets and sells her creations on Etsy!! She is awesome!
These are a few things I haven’t been able to live without or have wanted.
Things to do to relax and fall asleep:
Do you ever have trouble falling asleep after a long day?
Sometimes I can’t fall asleep because I’m going through the day over in my mind thinking what I should have done or what I need to do tomorrow.
Here’s a few things I try when I can’t fall asleep:
- Do some sleepy time yoga. ( I love following Yoga with Adrienne on YouTube. The bedtime yoga video helps me relax)
- Read a book. ( I find reading a book rather than being on your phone helps because the light from your phone may trick your brain and circadian rhythm into thinking that it is day time)
- Try to stop looking at your electronics before bed. ( Or I use apps that adjust your phones brightness according to the time of day. I use the f.lux app.)
- Drink some warm tea or milk! ( I don’t know why this works. But I’ve tried it a few times and something about the warm drink makes me sleep better. Camomile tea with a tiny bit of honey is the best for me).
- Try meditation? ( Focusing on something else really helps you to relax. I was recommended these apps: Calm and Headspace. I have been trying out insight timer. Lynn (@createyourdailyflow on instagram) had made a mediation group! I really like all the guided meditations on there and the customizable meditation timers as well.)
- Write it down. ( Journaling helps before bed to go through what has happened during the day or help you write down what you are unhappy with. Or if journaling is not something that is in your routine, try writing down whatever is bothering you and there is always tomorrow to figure it out!)
Hope this helps!
Failing forward is when we learn from what happened and move forward. We all make mistakes, and that is OK! I fail all the time. Recently, I had to change my dissertation submission date because I couldn’t finish in time. I made a goal that was too ambitious and too short of a time frame for me to finish writing my dissertation. But I learned something and I tried!
As Dr. Randy Pausch (author of The Last Lecture) once said,
“Experience is what you get when you didn’t get what you wanted.”
We need to remember that we are all human, and we are allowed to make mistakes and learn from them.
The next time I feel that I have failed… I will try to remember these few things.
- It is OK to fail at something, what did we learn from it? Try not to think about it as a mistake or as failing at something. Own your mistake! Instead think about it as learning. We learn the best by making a mistake. As a researcher I am constantly testing out new ideas, and most of the time I am wrong. But, we wouldn’t know that we are wrong unless we try. So make those mistakes!! Make them into learning moments.
- Don’t be too hard on yourself. It is really easy to put ourselves down for failing at something. We feel horrible. We feel like imposters. But I think we need to remember that everyone started somewhere!
- Be flexible. Sometimes, things happen. Tomorrow is a new day.
- We are all human!
Hope this helps you!