Failing forward is when we learn from what happened and move forward. We all make mistakes, and that is OK! I fail all the time. Recently, I had to change my dissertation submission date because I couldn’t finish in time. I made a goal that was too ambitious and too short of a time frame for me to finish writing my dissertation. But I learned something and I tried!
As Dr. Randy Pausch (author of The Last Lecture) once said,
“Experience is what you get when you didn’t get what you wanted.”
We need to remember that we are all human, and we are allowed to make mistakes and learn from them.
The next time I feel that I have failed… I will try to remember these few things.
- It is OK to fail at something, what did we learn from it? Try not to think about it as a mistake or as failing at something. Own your mistake! Instead think about it as learning. We learn the best by making a mistake. As a researcher I am constantly testing out new ideas, and most of the time I am wrong. But, we wouldn’t know that we are wrong unless we try. So make those mistakes!! Make them into learning moments.
- Don’t be too hard on yourself. It is really easy to put ourselves down for failing at something. We feel horrible. We feel like imposters. But I think we need to remember that everyone started somewhere!
- Be flexible. Sometimes, things happen. Tomorrow is a new day.
- We are all human!
Hope this helps you!